Hey bitches, welcome back to a long awaited blog post. Things have been a little crazy but I am finally sitting down and getting around to writing. With it being New Year and all I thought I would share with you things I am ditching rather than doing and it’s all in the name of self care. 2019 was a crazy year and it had a lot of unexpected ups and downs but it taught me a lot of lessons about my self. Stay tuned to read about how I am changing my attitude for the new decade…
Quit Waiting Around
I feel I use to be a very get up go person due to my lifestyle but as things have changed I feel I have slacked off a little as I have gotten older. I kinda wait for things to come round rather than going and getting them for myself. I actually really miss how active, productive and creative I once was. I still love it but juggling all three with adult life can be a little difficult. However, this bad habit has been noted by me and I look forward to proving to myself that I can get what I want when I work hard!
Glass Half Empty
The title really says it all. Sometimes I catch myself giving a bad attitude or being really negative. I am a huge believer that what you put out to the universe is intern what you receive back. I really want to notice when I am being negative and change my view into being the ‘glass half full’ approach. In 2019 I had some tough spots and I think I personally dwelled a little too hard into them so I can hoping to turn that round in 2020 and stop letting pointless negative thoughts live rent free in my head.
Now most people assume that being open online you have a huge amount of confidence however, I find this to be the total opposite. Most people I meet who post themselves online seem to be rather self conscious and the apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree with me. I am huge self doubter. I always question my self, my choices and actions and I am really starting to wonder why. I am realising that I am being rather over critical when I don’t need to be. One thing I always doubt is what I am saying, whether or not it sounds stupid and nearly enough 99% of the time it really isn’t and it’s only been having supportive people around me I have realised I need to quit the self doubt.
Thank you for coming to read my super short blog post but non the less I hope you enjoyed it. Until next time…